Ruger Speaks Out: “Nobody Is Really Your Friend in This Industry”
Popular Nigerian singer and songwriter Michael Adebayo Olayinka, professionally known as Ruger, has opened up about the harsh emotional realities of being a music star. During a recent appearance on The Stanley Agu Show, the Bounce crooner bared his soul in one of his most honest interviews to date.
Ruger revealed that despite his growing fame and success, he has had to learn the hard way that the Nigerian music industry is not always what it seems.
“One thing I wish I had known earlier is that no one is your friend in the industry… everything is business.” — Ruger
Fame, but No Real Friendship?
In the interview, Ruger expressed how isolating the industry can be. According to him, most people in the music scene only draw close when there’s something to gain and quickly disappear when the tides turn.
“They move around with you because you can offer something at that time… The moment you can’t, they’ll switch on you,” he said.
This confession touched many fans who never imagined that someone with such a strong stage presence and fanbase could feel so alone.
From Pirate Patch to Pain
Ruger, known for his bold style and signature eyepatch, has captivated audiences with hits like “Girlfriend” and “Asiwaju.” But behind the fame, Ruger admits he often feels emotionally drained and taken for granted.
“Sometimes you think people are vibing with you for who you are, but it’s really just what they think you can do for them,” he said.
Despite these feelings, Ruger holds onto the value of true friendships—however rare they may be. He stressed that having even one or two genuine people in your corner makes a big difference.
Mental Health and the Industry
Ruger’s remarks have started an important conversation on mental health in the entertainment industry. Many young talents are realizing that while success brings fans, it doesn’t always bring meaningful relationships.
Fans and mental health advocates have applauded Ruger for speaking up, reminding others that it’s okay to feel overwhelmed—even at the top.
Social Media Reactions
“Ruger just said the truth. That industry is full of users and clout chasers.” – @NaijaVibes
“This is why mental health support for artists is so important.” – @TrueSupporters
conclusion
Ruger’s revelations remind us that behind every spotlight is a human being, often fighting emotional battles silently. His courage to speak up is a powerful reminder that even in glittering industries, loneliness is real, and authentic connection is rare.
As fans, let’s continue to support not just the music—but the people who make it.
